Personal growth and authenticity (living a rich and deep life of experiences) comes in two distinct ways
Steps The small daily things you do that expand your horizons in terms of skill development or knowledge. It typically comes in the form of reading, hobbies, career, conversations with friends and family etc.
Leaps These are the big changes which come in the form of major commitments that completely shift us into a new phase of life. Such as changing careers, moving to another country, going backpacking for several months, starting a family, etc.
Connections
Life Is A Process, Not A Thing